It is unimportant what has become the cause for quarrel – he has presented a ring, and has forgotten about a bouquet, the mirror in a bathroom is splashed again, promised to call and has not called. It is important that you wish to melt ice in relations.

Certainly, there are two points of view – wrong and yours. But it is not necessary to remind of it to your partner constantly!

Reconciliation strategy is always same — regardless of the fact that has become the cause for quarrel — your bad mood or more essential disagreements.

Preliminary preparation.

1. Calm down. If you have already dispersed on different corners (to rooms, apartments), but mentally continue to think out charges and biting phrases, a conclusion one – it is early to reconcile. To interrupt this internal monologue, recollect that it is a question of the person, who is so important for you.

2. Spend negative energy in the peace purposes. Make that what you couldn’t do at good times: put things in order in computer folders, sort things, throw out stuff.

3. Take a break. It is very good to occupy head with some other things: to esteem the book, to read articles from section “Psychology” or to communicate at a forum, to look a film, to have a sleep, at last. While the consciousness is occupied, not excluded that to you will open some other, new understanding of all situation.

4. If you are the sociable person, discuss your quarrel with somebody. It is completely not obligatory to call to mum or the friend, it is better to choose the virtual interlocutor, and he or she could be unfamiliar. Ask a question «How do you think, why people behave like this?» Sometimes absolutely strange people are capable to give very good advice just because they are strangers.

How is to begin a dialogue?

It is never necessary to hurry up. Wait, while the partner will cool down and will be capable to argue sensibly. If the occasion to quarrel was serious enough, it can be demanded 1-2 days depending on his temperament. The keystone to success is your spirit and deep conviction that you now extinguish the conflict and do everything correctly. Remember that you wish to reconcile, instead of to prove own case. Any sniveling intonations are often perceived as continuation of quarrel. If you are not assured of the «vocal possibilities», it is better to speak, nothing and to wait a little more.

If you have found, in what you were not right, admit the error.

You should embrace him (touch, kiss him – depending on relations) also tell that you love him. Any provocations on a theme «I Love, though you …». Otherwise, you risk starting all with the beginning.

Cry. It works very good, if more often you, quarrelling, behave coldly and independently as «the Iron lady», pretend that you don’t worry, though actually it is not so. Your tears will let him know that you are hurt.

It is very difficult way, but effective: tell about your feelings, show that understand his feelings (feelings, do not start conversation on belief or acts). Now not time to find out, who in what was or was not guilty.

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