Relationships can be a funny thing. They can be going along great one day, then the next, boom, it’s over. Have you found yourself on the receiving end of the horrible breakup talk, and not really sure why it happened? I bet you would like to at least have a second chance to try to figure out why you are alone again, and possibly fix things rather than ending them. Let me tell you, winning back your ex is possible. If you truly believe the two of you belong together, and are willing to adhere to one or two basic rules, you could have the love of your life back in your arms in no time.

First off – and this is huge – don’t ever grow to be a stalking, needy, poor me schlepp. No one likes this type of person about; much less have a relationship with them. Hard as it is, and as unnatural as it may feel, you should get out and do something else besides stewing about your loss. Go workout, take a class you’ve always wanted to take, learn an instrument. Do things you’ve never done – especially with your ex – get your mind off them, for the moment at least.

Second, now’s the time to cut off all communication with your ex. No calling, texting, or worst of all, drunken dialing. Take some time alone to figure out what happened to cause your ex to leave. Get an honest inward look to see if there is some thing you did that he or she did not like. Also, take some time to figure out if your ex is worth getting back. Maybe you’ve been blinded by love. You could be willing to overlook faults that normally you would not be able to tolerate.

Third, related to the other two, don’t wallow in self pity for too extended a period. If your ex is still interested, he or she may suddenly appear and make contact. Of course, they may not. if they don’t, pick up the pieces and get on with your life. Be the self confident person your ex fell in love with. Hard as it may be to believe, you may meet someone else and be happier than you ever were with your ex.

The bottom line of all these suggestions is really to examine yourself and figure out if you may have lost your identity during the past relationship. Your ex fell in love with you, not a mirror image of themselves or a puppet that is ready at their beck and call. Be yourself. This is ultimately the best piece of advice – the magic secret you can be given if you want to have a good chance of winning back your ex.

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