Unfortunately, theories abound for how to win ex back after you’ve been dumped. Most of them involve playing mind games with your ex. But, if you play around with her mind just to get back with her, you’ll be starting your relationship over on unstable ground. This is no way to win ex back.

Remember how your phone used to buzz with her text messages several times a day when you were together? Now your phone sits sad and silent. Make sure you don’t seem desperate, but it’s OK to give her a call once a week to keep those lines of communication open in case reconciliation is possible.

When you have been dumped, it can be hard to see straight, let alone think straight. Your world has been turned upside down. With everything going on, you are likely to make some serious mistakes that can kill your chance for a reunion. However, these mistakes can be rectified if you realize what you are doing and stop immediately. If you want to win your ex back, it’s important that you recognize the errors and do the right thing. After all, your ex is still important to you, right?

Error 1 – Pleading Your Case

Okay, first thing, do not beg or plead your case, hoping your ex will take pity on you, realize they still love you and come back. It does not work. Yes, it is a natural reaction to have after a breakup but it’s also a big mistake to do. When you pressure your ex to come back, you are essentially driving them further away. You are liable to make them even angrier at you for not giving them the space they need to sort through their feelings. It’s important that your ex gets this space. Don’t act needy, desperate and certainly whiny. You only affirm their decision to end the relationship.

Error 2 – Drunk Dialing

What is drunk dialing? Know those midnight or later phone calls you make to your ex, hoping to hear their voice, leading you to beg and plead for a second chance… only to realize that you sound like a goofball and quickly hang up? Oh yeah and you are drunk too. That is drunk dialing and for any ex to get that kind of phone call, it is not sexy in the least.

Drinking does take the pain away for a short time but it brings it back full force once the effect has begun to wear off. When you are depressed about the breakup, drinking only further enhances those feelings. Do not do drunk dialing even if it sounds good when you are drinking. It doesn’t do anything for you or win your exget my ex girlfriend back

Error 3 – Text Message Terrorism

This mistake cannot be blamed on alcohol. Text message terrorism occurs when you constantly assail your ex with phone calls, text messages, emails, instant messages, etc. You believe that constantly trying to get a hold of your ex is a good thing because it keeps them thinking about you. Actually, it does make them think about you but in a negative way not positive. If your ex hasn’t called you after the first phone call or message, the chances are they won’t be calling you.

If this is your case, then do the next best thing. Give your ex the space they need to work through the problems they saw. During this time, you work on your own problems. If things work out, then maybe the two of you can work things out and get back together but using text message terrorism to stay in their life will not work or win your ex back
get your ex back. It just makes you look like a psycho.

When you see your relationship fall apart before your eyes the feelings of helplessness can become overwhelming and frightening. If you are the one that wants to stay together and your partner wants to move away from the relationship it’s frustrating when your calls for a reconciliation are rebuffed.

Acting with emotion often rules what comes out of your mouth. This is where problems can start when you are trying to win back your ex. Acting with purpose and in a controlled manor is key to doing this successfully.

This involves you breaking off communication. I hear your screams already, but trust me, this may sound like a strange thing to do, but you need to reflect for a few days. If you have been pestering your ex for the last few weeks, this action is most likely going to make them think twice too.

Communication should then take place when you are calm and controlled, coming straight out with things like “I miss you so much, please take me back.” will do nothing for your cause. Firstly, it makes you sound needy. It just isn’t saying to your ex ‘hey, I understand’ or ‘I’m realizing why things started to go wrong.’

Letting your ex know that you are thinking through things and trying to work out what went wrong and why is critical. If they think that you are just going to sit there begging their forgiveness it shows that you just haven’t listened to anything that they have told you. Let them know you are listening.

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