It could be everybody has already noticed: crisis is negatively reflected not only on our earnings, but also on relations with favorite and other members of the family. How is to make so to prevent rupture and quarrels? And it is even better – how is it possible to harden your relations?

To begin with it is necessary to conduct auditing to understand – why right now quarrels become more frequent. There are some typical reasons:

- You and your partner vent irritation and negative emotions on each other, which you feel because your plans do not manage to be realized.

- At one of you business is looking better, than at other. As a result the first subconsciously feels a sense of guilt, and the second feels himself as the loser. All is aggravated in the event that the woman starts to play a role of “supporter” – the man’s ego hardly can apprehend it.

- Your standard of living has decreased; you should refuse already habitual entertainments. As a result you spend more time together, but cannot rejoice to it, being in a captivity of negative thoughts.

Every of these reasons are serious enough, and if they are imposed at each other – the explosive cocktail is received. And if to undertake nothing, and to let matters drift – it is possible to spoil definitively even the good relations. What is to do?

1. Discuss the financial position with the partner. It is necessary to make it easy, without hurrying up, previously having agreed about rules. For example – not to interrupt one another, not to raise the voice, and if there will be such desire – to take a break, to cool down, and only then to return to discussion.

Your purpose is to understand how much was actually changed your standard of living. Besides, always it is useful to look at a situation objectively – it will give you forces to change those things, which do not suit you.

2. Think, what positive moments you can see in the circumstances. Do not hasten to answer “nothing”. For certain there will be at least a little, one of which, it is probable – free time. Meanwhile do not say what it is possible to make with this time, only make the list of “pluses”.

3. Talk about your dreams. Let each of you will tell what he/she would like to do (to work, to be at home, to rest and so on). And the second partner should listen, at all without criticizing. Write down the ideas and dreams – in two columns (in one – yours, in other – your partner’s).

4. And now is the most interesting. Think up the joint project, which would be interesting also to you, and to your partner. It doesn’t mean what it will concern: travel, repair to apartment or new business. The main thing – that you had a fuse, the motivation to do something together. Besides, it helps to see something new and interesting into your partner. And it always goes on advantage to relations.

This simple exercise should help to you to leave from this oppressing and a grave condition in which you, probably, sojourned not one week.

And, at last, remember: crisis will end sooner or later, and if your family manages to endure it, having saved and having increased sincere heat – no hardship will be terrible to you in the future.

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