You have broken up. The person whom you did not dare to doubt, who always was near you, without which the life is already inconceivable – has left. Heart into smithereens, the soul was compressed in a lump. What now to do further, how to find yourself in the new world without him? Almost always the rage, insult happens the first reaction, after all the self-esteem is wounded. Some even start to think of revenge. Forget about it. Let’s better solve how correctly to leave the past in the past and to take the first step to new happiness!

To begin with you should have a good cry and tell to everybody about everything that has happened and as you feel now. The main thing is to utter and have a good cry. After such procedures it is better to look a cheerful comedy or to go on a visit to the friend with whom it is possible to laugh. Such humorous therapy has a good effect on nervous system. Put in a box everything that reminds you of unfortunate love. Time will come, and it will necessarily soon come, and you can easily return soft elephants and plush hares on regiments, to read with a smile his congratulation in cards.

After that, go to shop to buy something new. It is absolutely unessential, as show sometimes in the TV, completely to change clothes or to recolor hair in bright green. Simply enough is to buy a nice jacket or the scented water, which smell was pleasant for a long time. In general, dive into attracting depths of egoism and be engaged only in yourself! If the image of the past still does not allow taking pleasure in freedom, make the list of all lacks inherent in the ex beloved. If it is impossible and you again plunge into melancholy – call girlfriends! They precisely name a heap of his small and large defects about which were afraid to tell before when you were together.

This list you should hang up on a wall before a bed so that each time, falling asleep and waking up, to see “the black list”. In a week you will not recollect exclusively good moments in relations with the ex. Memory will start to “extend” scenes of quarrels, argues and long night disputes. You will stop to live in past at last.

But if you are not sure whether you want to forget your ex or not, you shouldn’t do some of these advices. It is possible to get your ex back if you still have strong feelings and you are sure that he feels the same. To get him back you should give him time to think about your situation properly and to understand his feelings. You shouldn’t guilt each other into your break up, but in opposite it is better to meet and to speak about your relations and try to find a solution!

It is almost impossible to dodge the cases when you face the how to get your ex back situation. The biggest problem here is that people think too much about how to get your ex back, instead of putting this whole story in another way. It is not about how to get your ex back, really. This is about how to make it exciting again.

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