The Issue Of A Partner’s Indiscretions And Infidelities.

At some point in any of our relationships most of us will have to confront the issue of a partner’s indiscretions and infidelities. While it not always possible to pre-empt an act of infidelity there are certain things you can do while your relationship is still healthy to keep your partner from straying.

The goal here is to make your partner want you and not someone else somewhere down the line in your relationship. The problem with this is that most relationships grow stale after a while and this could cause your spouse or partner to satisfy their needs somewhere else. The trick is to keep your relationship alive and to keep them interested in you. Here are some tips to help you keep the romance and interest alive in your love life.

We’ve touched on the concept that men are like machines. They react to external stimuli and external triggers. In particular, we talked about that men have specific buttons that a woman can push to elicit certain, predicable actions – cheating is one of them.

The majority of men work this way – when someone pushes their cheating buttons, they cheat. That “someone” could be another woman or it could be us. To prevent a Cheating Partner is simple. Make sure that the other woman has no chance of pushing his “cheating button.” At the same time, manage our behaviours in a way to make sure we are not pushing his cheating buttons as well.

Only when we can do this, we can safely say the relationship is rock solid. In that case, you will never have to worry about him ever cheating on you or leaving you for another woman. Won’t it be great to have that security and that peace of mind once and for all?

I would hope so.

So, in this article, we want to continue with this discussion and talk about his Dirty Secret #2: The 3 Cheating Buttons. I’ll try to cover as much as possible.

A Man’s Cheating Button #1: Routine

Men, no matter how rational, have a chaotic side. This poses a particular challenge for us women. When a man is in a committed relationship, things slowly and eventually become stable and predictable. He knows that you’ll be there when he’s back. He knows that you’ll spend time with him as a couple. He knows that he has a commitment and a responsibility.

No matter how much he wants that predictable pattern in his life, there is part of him that desires something spontaneous, something exciting, something adventurous, and something BAD … All men have this secret desire. The only difference is some show it more and others less.

So, how does this concern you and your relationship? When things become a routine in a man’s love life, a man becomes susceptible for affairs. His radar is attuned to attractive women. He gets restless. He feels tempted. He starts to think about the possibilities.

That’s when the trouble starts. As a woman, you want to make sure you look for clues, signs, and in particular, boredom. If a man seems bored with the relationship, you want to be alert to a possible crisis down the road.

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