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There’s a huge Dating Mistakes you are
probably making right now with men.

And you are probably making it within
the first five minutes.

What’s worse is that most men will see and
recognize this mistake from a woman INSTANTLY.

Don’t believe me? Read on and find out how
to transform “dating” into the fun, exciting,
and successful process of truly connecting
with a man it’s meant to be.

Now, let me ask you something…

When you start talking to a man that you’re
“interested” in or dating, what is your attitude
toward him?

How do you treat him?

And what are you THINKING ABOUT?

Do you start the interaction by trying to
figure out if he’s single and if he’d be into
you… or how to get him to be MORE into you?

Do you assume that if he’s anything close
to a good guy, then he probably has a girlfriend?

And if he does have a girlfriend, do you
secretly hope that he isn’t too into her and
that he’ll take notice of you?

Do you try to pretend like you’re not so
interested in him “in that way”, and instead
try to be casual about it until you get signals
from him?

Or do you even THINK about how to talk to a
man in a way that will spark his interest and
move your situation from you “chasing” him to
having him “court” YOU instead?

The fact is, most women make the same mistake
when trying to spark interest in a man…

They leave it up to men, or to “fate”, to
decide what happens in their situation – and
are UNAWARE of what they’re doing.

Or, if they are aware of what they’re doing…
they’re not aware of what OTHER people
(particularly men) think of them and their
behaviors.

Now, most women won’t ADMIT that they will
try to do or say whatever they think will please
a man.

And they won’t ADMIT that they’re even
mentally anticipating what a man is going to
think or do so they can respond to it in the
“right” way.

But the reality for lots of women is that
this is happening.

And it’s happening ALL THE TIME.

Let me explain…

Out of a random sample of 100 handsome guys,
you’d probably find that only 20 of them (or so)
are:

- Single

- Emotionally stable and at least semi-mature

- Able to carry on an interesting conversation

- Open to a relationship, should the right woman
come along

- Not a player, or looking for just “fun”

This is just an estimate from my own personal
experience, but I think you get the point.

Now, here’s the important part of this
concept…

Let’s say that you started talking to all of
these 100 men, one after the other, and you had
to use the same basic attitude and conversational
style with each of them.

What would you do?

If you treated all of them like they were
probably NOT single, interesting, stable, open,
mature, etc, (which is the case for most of them),
then you’d probably scare off the single ones who
actually were the good ones, because they’d think
YOU were acting strange, or that something was
“off” with you.

For instance, let’s say you started a
conversation with a very attractive guy who was
open-minded and funny. But let’s say that you
were “playing it cool”, not saying anything that
might offend or appear “too forward”, and
generally treating him and talking to him like
he might be a good “friend”.

You’d probably be trying to figure out if
he was single, what his “story” was, and ask him
some questions to get to know a bit about him.

“So what do you do?”

“Where are you from?”

“How did you get so funny?”

And you wouldn’t really be paying attention
to what you were saying as you listened to him
and asked him questions. And you might end the
conversation as you left and he hadn’t taken
your number or asked you out by saying, “So,
why don’t you call me sometime?”

And what is this hot, smart, desirable man
thinking while you say this?

Right… Unless he’s purely physically
attracted to you, he’s thinking that you and
he didn’t really “hit it off” and that you must
be kind of desperate to ask him out when you
didn’t share any real “chemistry” or connection.

(Remember, you were playing it cool the
whole time… and you were asking him a bunch of
questions about his everyday life. BORING!)

Now, let’s take the flip side of talking to
these 100 men.

Stay with me here.

Let’s say that you treated ALL of the 100
attractive men like they were fun, open, smart,
available, interesting, etc.

What would happen?

Well, you’d probably start flirting with all of
them right from the beginning, or you’d
communicate very quickly that you weren’t just
another friendly gal who wanted to talk about the
weather.

And what would happen?

Well, as you can imagine, a lot of the men
who were either unavailable or unable to have a
normal conversation would “reject” you. Especially
if you were obviously open, available, but not
a push-over at the same time. (Letting them know
that you were the one doing the “choosing”, and
that only “real men” would be considered)

Well, for most women, the THOUGHT of being
“rejected” by a man they’re interested in is
worse than slow water torture or electric shock.

So what do women do?

They don’t even try.

And they miss the opportunities with all of
those wonderful, single, open, emotionally
available men who are out looking for a woman
who has the confidence to find them.

So what’s the solution?

The solution is to use a little “strategy”
or “technique” called behaving AS IF he’s single,
available, and interesting.

You must learn to overcome your initial self-
doubt and your doubts about a man, and behave
AS IF every man you start talking to is SINGLE
and AS IF he’s going to be a great guy.

And then you must do some things that
will attract THAT man, and forget about
what might happen with the other 80% of guys
who can’t make the grade.

And you must learn to NOT take the things
that happen in between meeting the wonderful
ones PERSONALLY.

There’s an old principle when it comes to
marketing and advertising that really applies
here in the real world.

It basically says that out of 100 people
reading your ad or seeing your commercial, maybe
ONE of them is someone who would buy your product
anyway.

SO QUIT TALKING TO ALL OF THE 100 PEOPLE,
AND SIMPLY TALK TO THE ONE.

The point is… talk to the men you meet
AS IF they’re single, open, interesting, and
wonderful.

And then don’t worry about the ones that
don’t turn out to actually BE single, open,
interesting, available, and wonderful.

Use the things you’re learning from me, and
KEEP USING THEM… even if they don’t work
every time, and in every situation.

There are all kinds of reasons why men
aren’t “ready” or interested… or stop being
interested… or whatever.

But this doesn’t mean that you should stop
doing what works!

…which leads me to my next point.

You’re probably wondering… “Albina,
so how do I behave AS IF the man I am meeting
will likely turn out to be a good guy… or
even be my “Mr. Right”?

Good question. I’ll tell you how…

When you first start talking to a man,
your BELIEFS about men, dating, and
relationships are CRITICAL.

If you don’t know how to communicate in a
way that INSTANTLY shows a man that you’re
one of the women who “gets it”, has confidence,
and is attractive both inside and out… then
you’ll probably be overlooked and mentally
discounted by a man within SECONDS.

Or a man will want to be with you for the
WRONG REASONS, or for only a short and uncertain
amount of time.

Of course, in order to PROJECT the correct
beliefs that are attractive to men, you must
KNOW WHAT THEY ARE, and UNDERSTAND
THEM.

In other words, you can’t just “fake” them.
You actually have to have a DEEP understanding
of how men think, and what makes them feel
a POWERFUL, gut-level emotional ATTRACTION
for a woman.

It’s taken me YEARS to figure out this
critical point in dating and relationships…
and several more years to observe and study so
I could help women do this quickly and easily.

And without doing all kinds of “kooky” and
out there stuff, or stuff that doesn’t feel
“real”.

No one likes to play “games”, or have games
played with them.

There is a way to completely AVOID PLAYING
GAMES and get straight to the kind of connection
and indirect communication that brings a man and
a woman closer than simply using words can.

You can’t learn to be a professional dancer
or an expert in martial arts just by learning
a few “techniques”.

It takes a DEEPER, more profound understanding.

And you can’t learn how to be become more
successful in your single life, or in your
relationship by learning a few of the right
things to say.

It just doesn’t work this way.

(Think of men who believe in and try to use
“pick-up lines” on women)

And I’ve created a few specific educational
tools so you can learn this skill… right from
the comfort of your own home.

You’ll learn everything from how to overcome
fears of meeting and dating men to the 6
essential keys to ATTRACTION you need to know
in order to take your relationship beyond just
a physical bond, and create the kind of deep
EMOTIONAL CONNECTION with a man that will LAST.

And there’s lots more in this program.

You’ll want to go through this material
SEVERAL times before you want to put it down…
and in fact, you’ll probably keep reviewing the
material for some time.

THE SECRET to Attracting and Keeping Your MAN

Oh, and one CRITICAL thing you need to know
when you’re with a man and you want to move your
relationship into a more CERTAIN, SECURE,
COMMITTED place, is exactly how to get there with
him.

Lots of women go their WHOLE LIVES never
learning how love and commitment actually works
for a man.

As you probably already know, men can be very
RESISTANT to committing to a relationship with
a woman… EVEN IF HE LOVES HER.

In other words, just because a man falls
for you, it doesn’t always mean that he’ll feel
like TRULY COMMITTING to you.

If you know a man feels strongly for you, or
even loves you… and you are having trouble
growing the relationship and moving forward
together into a more SECURE and CERTAIN place,
then it’s time you checked out the THE SECRET to
attracting your Man.

This is the book that started it all, and
it’s the foundation for everything else I
teach. Enjoy…

Best of luck in life and love,

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