If you’re frustrated that he stopped calling or emailing after what felt like a great date or dates (lots of laughter, connection, interesting conversation), then you need to read this special web page I put together about creating and building a strong and natural ATTRACTION with a man.

Bottom line – women who naturally know how to create this kind of attraction rarely have to worry about a man getting distant or pulling away.

That’s because a man will feel literally COMPELLED
to keep seeing you and being around you when you
know how to trigger that “special” kind of deep
attraction.

Should you have that “serious talk” with a HIM?

Too often we women are guilty of getting too deadly serious about a man far too soon. And if there is one thing men really dread from women, like it or not, it is when a woman wants to have that “serious talk.”

When a man sees that the girl whose company he so enjoyed is suddenly “serious” and wants to have a “serious” talk with him, it often changes the entire tone of your relationship from “lively” to about as much fun as doing a term paper.

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I say, let him be the one who wants to have that serious talk. And he will – if you give him half a chance to let it be his idea.

An outrageous idea? Yes – and that is why it has stood the test of time: because it is very effective, and it is based on how men and women are “wired.”
Put off that “serious talk” until a Year from Never.
Unless of course it’s his idea.

Believe me, if it’s his idea, you will be far more at your best during that serious talk. You’ll feel great that he’s insisting on being a bigger part of your busy life.
“THE Secret to the Hearts of MEN”

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I’ve found that women in all walks of life have a great interest in becoming more charming, alluring, and loved by that special man. I’ve had a lifelong interest in this topic, and have written several books in recent years about attracting men. So stay tuned to read more, once per day – you can unsubscribe any time if they’re not for you.

See you soon with specific Dting Advice tips and true-life stories about attracting and keeping the man you want – or the man you already have!

With love,
Albina Fabiani

N. B. These article is not intended to substitute for professional guidance. Your own situation is unique, and it is important that you make your own decisions about life-changing events.

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Dear Friend,

Lots of women who want to find emotional ATTRACTION with a great man don’t have it because
they simply don’t know HOW TO MEET A MAN and get
things started… or they don’t know how to
get the attention and interest of a man they’ve
already met. If you don’t know what to do in
the first few minutes of meeting a man to get
him to ask you out and be interested in you
for THE RIGHT REASONS…then you need to read
this right now:

How many times have you met a great guy
and wanted to get to know him better… but
he just didn’t seem to notice you or feel the
same way about you?

You talked and interacted with him… but
you didn’t quite know how to make that more
personal “connection” with him.

And he didn’t seem to “make the first move”
the way you might have wanted him to.

Which was frustrating, because you wanted
to spend time with him… but you didn’t know
how to get the conversation started and “break
the ice.”

And the thought of “approaching” him directly
and telling him how you felt seemed like the
very last thing to do.

So what did you do?

You didn’t do or say ANYTHING.

You waited and tried to “indirectly” get him
to notice you.

And while you were waiting for him… you
tried to find ways to “accidentally” be at
the places he was at.

You’d try and find out what he was doing and
where he was going to be… and then you’d find
a reason to go there too so you could end up in
his physical presence… in the hopes that
something would happen.

But still nothing happened.

He didn’t really even “notice you”… and he
didn’t take any interest. And you felt foolish
for being the one to have to “chase” him.

No matter how hard you tried, no matter
how many “hints” you dropped, or how many
“signals” you tried to send his way… NOTHING
came of it.

It was like you were somehow “invisible”
to him in that romantic kind of way.

Not a great feeling, right?

If you’ve been in this kind of situation
with a man before, then you know it can make
you feel awful.

In fact, it can be downright PAINFUL and
FRUSTRATING to the point where you don’t know
what to do next and you become a little hopeless
and down on yourself.

If you’re like lots of women, then in
situations like this in your past you’ve
ended up either:

A) NEVER sharing your feelings with the man
you were crazy about

Obviously, this gets you nowhere…

B) Finally breaking down and telling him how
much you like him and would like to go out
with him

If you’ve been down this second road before,
then you know it doesn’t get you very far
with a man either – even though it makes
sense that you should tell a man, and that
he would respond.

But what really happens when you quickly
come out and share your feelings for a man in
this way?

I think you unfortunately know the answer
already of what happens when you do this…

Instead of him being swept up by your
feelings and affections and embracing you…
he feels immediately REPELLED by you and your
feelings.

And as if his negative reaction in the moment
wasn’t bad enough… he stops communicating
with you all together after that, and even the
“friendship” you had is gone.

Ouch.

Now, here’s where it gets really strange
and fascinating…

For lots of women in these kinds of situations
with men, this is all just a setup for an even
bigger mistake they make that’s the proverbial
“nail in the coffin.”

For lots of women, the more a man doesn’t
seem to notice them or return their affections…
the more they SECRETLY CRAVE the man’s attention
and have an even stronger urge to keep sharing
more of their feelings with him.

Which of course only makes the man want to
get farther and farther away from them the
more that they try and share.

I wish this wasn’t how things worked…
but I’ve seen this exact thing happen so many
times that I can see this mistake coming for
some women a mile away.

But if this mistake is so common, why do
so many women make this mistake and engage in
the same kind of COUNTERPRODUCTIVE behavior
with men?

I’ll give you the short answer…

It’s because most women think that the more
they share their feelings… the more a man will
like them and develop those “romantic feelings”
toward them.

This is 100% WRONG when it comes to men
and dating.

The FALSE BELIEF that most women hold here,
that drives them to try and share more to get
a man interested, is that if they just say enough
about how they feel… then the man will open his
eyes, feel the same way, and recognize what a
perfect couple they could be.

Here’s the point…

When it comes to meeting men, getting things
started, and “dating”… sharing more of your
“deeper” feelings early on can have the exact
OPPOSITE EFFECT of what you might think.

Instead of a man feeling flattered…
he’ll often get TURNED OFF by you the more you
try to tell him how attractive and wonderful
you think he is.

Now, this whole idea of having to “censor”
yourself and your feelings… or not being
able to share who you really are and how you
really feel might bother you.

In fact, it might bother you a lot.

But the reality is that if you care about
having a man actually RESPOND to you the way
you’d like him to respond… then you’re going
to have to start to learn and take RESPONSIBILITY
for the way your communication makes him FEEL.

In other words, if you walk up to a man
you like and say to him,

“Hey, I really like you…”

You’re NOT going to get the results you
want 9 times out of 10. (At least not in terms
of starting a “real” lasting relationship.)

What’s important if you want a man to
RESPOND to you and reciprocate your feelings
is to first get him LIKING YOU and feeling
that magic thing called ATTRACTION for you.

And more importantly, to get him “feeling
it” for you BEFORE you tell him how you feel.

So then when you do share with him how you
feel… EVERYTHING will be different and he’ll
be VERY receptive to you and your feelings.

Maybe even a little too “receptive”… and
you’ll have to do your best to keep his hands
off of you (if you want).

Luckily, if you’re ready… I can help you
avoid ever having to be in these kinds of
frustrating situations with men again.

If you want the quickest way I know of to
capture a man’s attention and interest, and
get the conversation started to where HE is
asking YOU out… then you need to read this
special letter I’ve written explaining exactly
what you need to know in order to instantly
capture a man’s eye.

Now, I want to show you a few QUICK TIPS
To help you get what you want from your love life.

If you’re ready to meet a great guy, or
you’re looking to make things happen with a
great guy you already know… then here’s where
to start:

First, you need to know how to cross that
“invisible boundary” between being “friends”
with a man… and connecting on a “romantic”
level where a deeper level of affection and
intimacy is possible.

For lots of women, they have NO IDEA of
how to cross this line with a man in a way
that is fun, easy, and most importantly makes
a man feel MORE INTERESTED in being around
them.

Here’s where to start…

Tip #1: Get his attention in a way that will
intrigue him so much he won’t be able to
resist wanting to get to know you better…
and will think of you as the kind of woman
he wants from the START.

Ever strike up a conversation with a man
you were trying to get close to… and it either
led you nowhere, or you ended up just being
“friends”?

You were close to him, and you talked and
shared things with him… and your feelings
started to grow the more you got to know him.

But he didn’t seem to have the same
feelings growing inside him, and you could
tell.

You wished there was some way you could
break through and have him see you differently.

Lots of women who DON’T know how to “break
the ice” with a man on a romantic level and
end up either not getting a man’s interest,
or just being stuck in the friend zone no
matter what they do or say.

Trying too hard to connect with a man if he
DOESN’T FEEL that initial SPARK of romantic or
sexual interest does NOTHING to convince
him that he should spend his time with you.

If you want to break the pattern of constantly
getting stuck in the “friend zone” with a man…
and you’d like to know how you can cross that
invisible boundary between… then you need to
know how and where to take the conversation to
a ROMANTIC LEVEL where a man will quickly
start “feeling it” for you.

And you need to know how to do this without
making the mistake of coming off as desperate, or
actually turning a man off in the process like so
many women accidentally do.

Tip #2: Learn The Essential Skill Of “Backleading”

Do you ever think or feel like it should be
the man who makes the first move?

Let me answer the important question here that
so many women wonder about when it comes to
meeting men -

“Is it bad if I ask him out?”

Or put it another way, “Shouldn’t the man be
the one to ask the woman out?”

Here’s the deal…

It’s BEST if a man makes the move first, if
you want to set the foundation for a more serious
and lasting relationship from the start.

But…

If a man isn’t making the move, what’s a
woman to do?

Is it then bad for a woman to make the first
move?

The answer is NO. It’s not bad.

But only if you know what you’re doing,
and you know how to avoid the deadly mistake
of setting up a long-term “courtship pattern”
where YOU are the one chasing HIM.

This pattern over the long term will NOT
work out well for you. Period. End of story.

So… then what can you do if a man isn’t
making the first move, but you want to make
something happen?

Here’s what to do…

I have an amazing friend who’s a ballroom
dancer. She’s INCREDIBLE.

One day we were sitting around and she
told me about how it’s important in dancing
to have the roles where one LEADS, and the
other dancer FOLLOWS.

This is, of course, one of the oldest and
simplest human behavior patterns around.

Anyway… here’s how it relates to you
and men and dating.

My friend, the dancer, shared with me what
she would do when her male dance partner was
supposed to LEAD, but wasn’t doing a great
job of it.

Instead of CRITICIZING him, or taking the
LEAD herself (which wouldn’t work out well or
get her what she ultimately wanted)… she
would do what she called “BACKLEADING.”

This is where she is able to subtly direct
a man to lead and do the things he needs to
be doing… but she would do it in a way where
she didn’t take the lead herself.

She was able to CREATE THE SPACE and the
opportunity for the man to lead… without
having to take the lead herself.

As a result, she gets to enjoy the process of
following his lead in the direction she had wanted
things to go in the first place. (Nice!)

And all along, the man is a better dance
partner AND MORE SATISFIED and ENGAGED
in the process because he still felt like he is
the one making things happen on HIS TERMS.

Wow.

Now, I’m sure you’re already picking up
on where this is going when it comes to men
and dating…

If you can learn this amazing and subtle
skill called BACKLEADING with men in when it
comes to dating… and you can help a man take
the lead in bringing you and your relationship
closer from the very beginning… then the
“dating process” and the relationship you
create is going to be fun and easy.

On the other hand, if you keep on trying
to take the lead for a man and tell him where
you want to go… then he’s naturally going
to start RESISTING you and not enjoy the process.

He’ll feel “pressured” by you and he won’t
want to follow your lead – because he won’t feel
like it’s what HE WANTS, or his idea.

In life, it can make things a whole lot
easier if you can find ways to work WITH the
“energy” and the people around you…

Instead of constantly going AGAINST the
grain and trying to get everyone to do and see
things YOUR WAY.

If you’d like to learn how to quickly engage
a man on a “romantic” level (even when he’s
not showing interest in you initially)…

And you’d like to know what to DO and SAY
in the first meeting, and on the first several
dates or phone calls to create the kind of
ATTRACTION that will have him “courting” you,
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In this amazing program I answer the age-old
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“What does it mean when a man doesn’t
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“How do I get him to ask me out?”

“Should I call him? And when?”

And… “What should I say?”

The answers to these questions will help you
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closer in the beginning.

So don’t let what you don’t know about men
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“connection” with the right man.

Learn exactly what a man is thinking when
he meets you and starts “dating” you… and
why he’ll quickly pull away and stop calling
if you don’t show him some specific things
about you he needs to see if he’s going to
think of you as “relationship material” in the
back of his mind.

The great news is that the things you
need to say and do with a man will seem EASY
to you, once you know what they are…

And I can quickly show you what you need
to know right now.

Don’t continue to wait around for the
right man to find you, when it can be so fun
and easy to CREATE YOUR OWN LUCK
in love.

You don’t have to be single forever.

But you need to learn how the “dating
process” works for a man BEFORE you’re going
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RELATIONSHIP.

There’s no skipping the dating process
with a man… as much as you might want to.

Learn how to be the woman a man will
instantly recognize as “girlfriend material”
the moment he meets you.

Don’t keep waiting for the right man to
“wake up” and notice you. Help him out AND
take your own love life into your own hands
at the same time.

So don’t wait. Now is the time to bring the
right man into your life forever.
You can’t learn to be a professional dancer
or an expert in martial arts just by learning
a few Love Tactics.

Best of Luck in Love and Life,

Albina Fabiani

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