In relations of the man and the woman quite often flash conflicts. But degree of stability and reliability of their relations depends on ability and ability to resolve conflicts. The conflict, like anger, – is the inevitability following from the human nature. It inevitably arises every time when we enter in close contact to other people. Enamored men and women, married couples and their children, friends, fellow workers, members of the governments – all are familiar with how the opposite points of view can keep away people and what pain to bring into your life.
During the last years psychologists spend huge work on creation of effective methods of the resolution of conflicts. The basic attention gave to two areas: to conflicts in relations of the man and the woman and to conflicts on manufacture. To surprise of many, received results in both areas of researches, are absolutely identical.
Scientists have formulated a number of the positions, capable to resolve almost any conflict. I hope it will help you to get your ex back and make your relations stronger.
So, the conflict between the man and the woman to resolve easier, if:
· The man and the woman try not to take of a position “I will win, and you will lose”. To win – at least, in something – both parties can, and lose here to nobody necessarily;
· Partners have the identical information on the substance of a problem. Remember, that everyone gets data from different sources, therefore check the facts!
· Overall objectives of partners are compatible (for example, “to have a rest during holiday”, instead of “to go there and there”);
· The man and the woman are fair and opened before each other;
· Partners bear responsibility for the feelings;
· The man and the woman wish to discuss and solve problems open, instead of to leave from it aside;
· Any system of an exchange is provided.
Conversation and negotiations are ways of overcoming of the conflict. When men and women in common make efforts for the permission of the arisen problem it is very probable that they will come to a mutually advantageous variant in this or that form. It is thus important, that the partner was ready to offer something for the sake of another.
Pay attention, how well recommendations of psychologists lay down in the scheme of confident behavior. It is a little theory: the Confident behavior is a non-aggressive and confident behavior when the person accurately realizes own rights and purposes, but thus also considers rights and purposes of other people. This ability particularly to declare the requirements, desires and feelings, without striking at the right of other people, it is refusal from passive and aggressive behavior type.
The conflict which has reached a stage when one or both parties test strong anger, we will resolve only in the event that feelings are expressed fairly and openly. A confident phrase “I am terribly malicious because that you do not wish to understand my point of view” can begin meaningful dialogue, and uncertain “Let’s forget”, testifying to desire to leave from a question, or aggressive “Ah you, the swine obstinate” for certain only will be strengthened by irritation and anxiety. You should learn how to express the anger confidently, fairly and openly and then everybody, including you, will appreciate it.

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