Online Pickup Secrets: 3 Fatal Errors When Talking To Women Online

So… you’re on your favorite dating site… or maybe you’re on Facebook…

And there she is.

The girl that catches your eye. But what do you do? Let me tell you what 99% of guys do… they’ll message them and say something really generic like…

“Hey! How’s it going! You look really interesting and I was wondering if you would like to chat sometime! Hit me back!”

Or…

“Wow, you’re gorgeous. I bet you have all the guys out there hitting on you… but hopefully this message will get through to you because I would really like to take you out sometime!”

Or…

“I’m the nicest guy ever if you give me the chance! You should hit me back!”

I don’t care if you believe me – but it’s true. I guarantee you the success rate of some of these generic messages are about near 1% if you’re very lucky. And that’s if you have a really nice profile…

So what’s the magic formula?

Well for starters…I did mention this before… you need to PERFECT YOUR PROFILE before you get started.

Don’t message ANYONE until your online dating or Facebook profile is perfect!

What do I mean by this? You need to get the right pictures and right content in your profile. An attractive girl will not message you back if you have NO picture and just the most generic responses in your profile content.

Picture yourself from a girl’s perspective… you see some guy message you on some dating website and he has NO pictures… can you say creep?

What kind of pictures do you need to include? Typically speaking, you need to include pictures that convey value – but not in the way you’re thinking of… I’ll get to that a bit later.

The second thing you need to do is READ HER PROFILE. Too many guys fail to personalize the first message, which is essential. There are too many cut and paste messages out there.

An attractive girl gets as many as fifty messages a day! Do you think she’s going to have time to read all of them? Absolutely not.

You need something that catches their attention…the easiest way to do this is to personalize your message! More on this later…

Finally, the third thing most guys do is… write way too damn much!

Keep the message SHORT! Again, you need to appear like a non-creepy and non-needy guy. Again, imagine being an attractive girl… and you literally receive a full-fledged NOVEL! How weird is that to her? You barely know her and already you’re willing to invest a massive amount of time for her?

She doesn’t deserve that yet.

I give you all the tips you need on online pickup secrets! So you’re in luck.

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