Men make this mistake in the real world all the time when they want to meet an attractive woman. Most of us start out naturally this way.

So what is this fatal mistake?

We tend to idolize beautiful or otherwise hot women. We look past all the personality flaws for a moment or even forget to judge personality. Some of us simply freeze up in self-conscious astonishment. Some of us suddenly shower them with overboard compliments about their beauty or some other readily perceived quality.

Now here’s the real problem.

She feels this vibe from men at least ten times a day already. She’s flooded with idolizing attention. That means whether she’s at work, out at the grocery store, or at a bar or social gathering.

So what do you do instead?

The first thing is to stop making beautiful women feel like untouchable goddesses to you. This is a mental process that will take some practice but once done, you’ll be a more attractive man naturally.

First recall a woman in your life that is known to be attractive to the outside world. Yet, you clearly do not idolize her. You know her flaws and appreciate the various aspects of who she really is. You may even know she is deeply insecure.

This can be a relative, a sibling, a long-time female friend, or even your mother. Now recognize this consciously and then whenever you meet attractive women, consciously look for their flaws, too. Know that there are flaws and imagine them for the moment if need be. Ask yourself… “What would completely annoy or gross me if I hung out with her for a long time?”

Also, learn to see through the veneer that is her external beauty if that is the quality about women that influences you. Try to visualize her underneath her makeup.

Try this exercise for a week or so consciously. I guarantee you’ll feel a perceptible change.

Now what does this have to do with online dating?
The problem magnifies and deafens her to you even more. Because you can’t convey your voice and body language on most dating sites readily, the computer screen text looks completely like every other man hitting on her or virtually worshiping her. There is a guide called remote seducer that will show you more about making the best possible profile, not just for online dating sites, but also for your Myspace or Facebook profile.

Once you destroy that idolizing mindset, your communication online will become different and you will be looking for different things in a girl. This will make you recognizably different from all the clutter she sees in online dating.

Once again remote seducer will show you how to best optimize your profile before unleashing yourself onto the online dating scene, as well as your best opening messages and dating advice.

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