How to Win Back My Love – Getting Back My Confidence

How to Win Back My Love

I think getting dumped by someone that you have loved and invested tremendous time and effort in is one of the worst things that can happen to you. At least it feels that way at the time doesn’t it?

There are so many things that go through your mind when wrangling with a new breakup. It’s like a fresh wound and all you can seem to do is pour salt in it. It seems like its all you can do to make it through the day.

It’s such a personal thing so you start to think about all the things that you could have done better or “what did I do wrong” or the famous “why is this happening to me?” Then you start to think about “how to win back my love?” Listen, lets be realistic, you guys were right for each other before, how can I get my confidence back and get him or her back?

Here are some tips that really helped me in getting my confidence back:

1) Do Your Own Thing for Awhile – This is really paramount to giving some separation to both you and your ex lover. I started to focus on other things besides them and started living again. Lo and behold, my ex started to once again become intrigued by my “new found” independence and confidence.

2) Don’t Harass Them – Don’t call, e-mail, text whatever. I know you want to but don’t! There needs to be some mystery about you again. You will be surprised at what a little space can do.

3) Take Care of Yourself Physically – This does wonders for your confidence and your self esteem! The benefits here are many. Health, confidence and yes you guessed it, your ex will notice. Trust me on this one. We all tend to get a little to comfortable with our appearances within our relationships.

When pondering “how to win back my love”, it’s important to understand that regaining your confidence is going to be the key. After all confidence is very attractive.

How to Win Back My Love

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  1. 1

    While there is no sure fix solution to this issue one can think of starting by forgetting the past. Many make a mistake of dissecting the past a little too much and analyzing what went wrong. This is a good way to understand the relationship but only up to an extent. The best one can do is to believe that since the relationship had worked in the first place it can work again. The break up is because of the current situation and to win her love back all you have to do is turn the situation around.

  2. 2

    You can try to win him/her back but if you think the person doesn’t love you anymore then there’s no point in continuing the relationship or trying to win him/her back. Move on, love yourself more.

  3. 3

    The three points mentioned are good if you are trying to win back the person who just “dumped” you. However, consider the reasons that the two of you broke up and realize that deep down people do not change a whole lot. Even if you got back together, would the same issues come up and sabotage the relationship again?

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