Each one of us has had that one special lady in our lives. The one with the sweet personality, the really nice hair and the to-die-for face. She is the one who dates the more “adept” guys. So, the question is: how can you get her to like YOU?

The short answer is that you become an alpha male, and the longer answer is found in the book profiled on the following How To Become An Alpha Male page.

For now, let’s concentrate on what can be said about this process in the space of a single page.

While men are mainly attracted to a woman because of the way she looks, women are attracted to men because of their personality. The perfect man, for them, is the alpha male who has confidence in himself and who is not afraid to take the lead to get what he wants out of life.

Generally, what this means is that the best way to get a girl to like you is to make her feel like she has EARNED you.

This works because to get a girl to really like you, you need to exhibit a mindset of high value. Never appeal to her from a position of neediness.

So the best way to think about approaching a particular woman requires a mindset that includes:

1. Nonchalance.

2. Disregard for the outcome of whether or not she decides she likes you. (By which I mean, if she likes you, great, but if not, there are always other women out there who are just as great as she is.)

The essential point to understand here is that a girl should never be a challenge for you. Instead you need to be a challenge for her.

Besides placing a high value on yourself, you should also eliminate any neediness on your part by cultivating your social network. Make friends with as many women as possible. (Fortunately, girls are very easy to make friends with.)

Also, try to date as many women as possible. Do not restrict yourself by dating only “that one special girl.”

Why? Because the one thing you do not want to be going through your mind when you are around that special woman is the thought that, “God, I MUST have her! She’s absolutely unique!” Having a surplus of ladies in your life will ensure you avoid thinking this way.

Besides, when a girl notices that other girls are attracted to you, she will also experience attraction. Psychologically, this is known as the phenomenon of “social proof” and it is much more effective in women than men.

Have you ever seen the way your female friends drool over some guy in the bar who has got four women at his table? That is social proof in action.

By the way, it is all right to believe that a girl is beautiful and to feel heightened emotions for her.

Here is the important part though – you always need to remind yourself that there are LOTS of other women available, many of whom who are just as wonderful as the girl you really like.

If you start to convince yourself that any girl is one of a kind, that gives her total power over you, and, ironically, she will lose any attraction she has for you.

So, you are free to think that a woman is amazing. But remember that plenty of other girls are amazing too. That way you will not become needy.

So, the moral of the story is this: you should place a high value on yourself, you should have her earn your attention, and you should spend time with as many women as you can. Use these three essential techniques for how to get a girl to like you and you will see amazing results very soon.

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