Helpful Break Up Advice – Look How I Got My Ex Back – True Story

I want to tell you a story; this is a true story because it happened to me. I had a boyfriend by the name of Alvin. It was more than just a boyfriend/girlfriend thing, it was a full on relationship. We weren’t living together all of the time but stayed over at each other’s places a lot of the time and it was great.

You know what happened? Well we kind of got used to one another, things began to happen, small things at first, he didn’t call me when he said he was going to, didn’t answer his phone when I called. There always seemed to be an excuse some of them plausible, a lot of them not. I became suspicious, has he met someone else I found myself thinking and then I became cross and decided to have it out with him.

We both became upset, both said a lot of things we didn’t mean, the upshot of it was we parted, end of relationship. I was very upset because I was in love with Alvin and I was convinced he was in love with me. I became desperate “he’s not getting away that easy ” I told myself, so I started to call him often, without success, I sent him lots of messages, I even went to his place and banged on the door, still without any success.

Oh yes I was desperate and I was becoming depressed. I even wasn’t eating much. At one stage I said “to hell with him, I don’t need him anyway” but of course that was wrong, I did need him and I loved him. I wanted him back.

Then something happened, a girlfriend of mine told me about a book she had heard about, book on how to repair relationships. I really didn’t believe that some one that’s written a book could possibly be able to help me. “How could they know all of my personal problems?” I asked myself. Well to make a long story shorter, I purchased this book and I read it and then I read it again. It had many things that you should NOT do to get your ex back, and you know, I was doing most of them.
Then there were things to put into place that all but guaranteed to be able to get back together.

This book has so much information, so many strategies that you can use that it is impossible to put it all in this story, but here is just one bit, it was the very thing that got Alvin to reply to me. I let a little time pass and then sent him a hand written letter, very important to be hand written…here is what I wrote…

“Hi Alvin Just wanted to drop of a short note to let you know that I am totally OK with your decision to split up. Actually I saw it coming for a while. I wanted to also let you know how sorry I am for carrying on like I have been. It was totally disrespectful to you, I really do apologize. Oh! Some good news! I had a fantastic change in fortune and luck the other day. Funny timing…huh? Love to fill you in…But in the future. You and I both need some space right now. Regards Julie”

Yes Alvin did reply, I was amazed. The first thing that I tried from the book had worked. That alone didn’t get us back together, but the follow up advice did.

There is a lot more I could tell you in this story, but the most important bit is that Alvin and I are really back together, stronger than ever and are planning to marry.

I have told this story because I know that there is may people suffering from bad breakups, it really is very serious and when you are right in the middle there often seems there is no way out.

I learned there is a way out of almost any situation we find ourselves in regarding our relationship breakdown. Most of all I learned that we are NEVER alone. Reading this book showed me that – There Is Magic In making Up

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Date: Friday, 6. November 2009 9:00
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