Meeting and Dating Men

There’s a simple list of things to
NEVER DO on the first few dates with a man.

Do you know the things on this list?

I’ll tell you the first and most important -You should NEVER in any way communicate that you are interested in a relationship with a man on the first few dates – no matter how good things go.

To be clear… it’s ok to want a relationship.

But it’s NOT OK to communicate that you want a relationship with THIS MAN who you’ve just started dating and don’t really know.

Aside from this just being a bad way to go about choosing your future partner…

This is a 100% ATTRACTION-KILLER when it comes to men and dating.

I call this the “Instant Relationship” mistake, and TONS of women make this mistake in one way or another without really knowing they’re doing it.

Don’t make it easy for the RIGHT MAN to mistake you as the WRONG WOMAN for him, just because you didn’t take the time to know better.

I want to share some quick and easy things you can do to make sure that when you meet a man – you really connect and turn it into something more.

If you’ve already read my eBook, then you already know about the “attitude” carried by women who are naturally attractive to men and who inspire them to want to give a relationship a chance.

I call the attitude “Playful & Independent.”

I’ll explain how this “attitude” works, and why men find is so attractive in a woman by
starting here – I want you to imagine for a second what it’s like to be a single, successful, attractive man
who is your own age.

Pick a man you might already know… or just make one up in your head. But get a clear picture of this man in your mind.

Now that you’ve got this single attractive man in your mind, I want you to imagine what life is like for him as a SINGLE MAN.

He has a great life, lots of friends, and enjoys many aspects of his life from travel to work to sports.

He even does a lot of fun “dating”, getting to know great women, and sharing and connecting in new and different ways with the women he meets.

All in all, this man really has his life together, and he doesn’t often feel like he’s “missing” anything.

He enjoys the intimate times that he has spent with women, and he hasn’t yet had a woman who has
made him feel like he HAD TO have a serious and committed relationship yet.

Now, with this picture in mind…

What do you guess it’s like to be a man who’s a great “catch,” and then going out with women
and trying to get to know them?

Picture this now…

What is it like for this single attractive man when he goes out and meets women?

What are the women like who he comes across, meets, and goes on dates with?

What do most of these women have in common?

What do they say and do with him once they see how great he is?

And how do they act as a result of recognizing this great man and wanting him all to themselves?

Are they all fun, laid back, easy-going, and as carefree as he is?

Or are they different than they were with him at first?

I think you know where I’m going with this.

For the rare single attractive man out there…finding and meeting a great women who
also has her act together on every level is NOT EASY.

In fact, for lots of men, they feel frustrated the same way lots of women do -

They feel like there’s just no “normal” women out there.

And this frustration is only made worse when a single man finally thinks he’s met a woman who
he thinks is great….

Because after a few dates, something strange and uncomfortable often happens-

The woman he met who SEEMED mature, healthy, and who had a full life of her own suddenly
starts acting different.

Instead of enjoying the PROCESS of getting to know one another and seeing where things are
going…

Her attitude and her behavior change.

Suddenly she’s tense.

Suddenly she’s anxious and uncertain.

And suddenly she is asking for answers from the man about what’s going on, when he just feels
like he’s barely getting to know her.

And this is where the man feels a complete “disconnect” both physically and emotionally, and
sees that this must not be the right woman for him.

He’s thinking – “If she’s acting this way within the first few weeks… imagine what’s down the road!?”
What’s going on here?

To make a long story short, in these situations a man’s response is all too common -
He WITHDRAWS.

That means he STOPS CALLING, he stops asking the woman out, and he’s no longer interested in
getting to know her.

Which of course is the worst possible thing a man could do to make a woman who’s already wondering what’s going on with him… and it makes her feel even more freaked out.

And it’s here where things can go from bad to worse for some women.

Instead of seeing that their desire to know what a man is feeling or wanting has pushed him away early on…

They actually start trying harder to get him to open up to them and give them answers.

(As though the man is the one who’s in control!)

They call, they email, and they sound totally freaked out or upset when they finally do talk
to the man – which only makes things worse.

The situation I told doesn’t paint a very pretty picture of what happens for some women
when they start dating a man.

The strange truth is, I’ve seen very smart and amazing women who are usually calm, loving,
and “centered” turn into freaked out,”needy”, and panic-stricken women.

It’s not because they aren’t great women. It’s just that they let their NEGATIVE FEARS and
EMOTIONS take over and get in their way.

Now… If any of the above sounds familiar, or you’ve experienced any of the following below, then
knowing more about how men see “dating” and why and when they will want a relationship could
really help you:

-A man doesn’t call back and you have NO IDEA why

-You go on 2 or 3 great dates and get physical with a man, then you have what feels like a
“strange” talk and he stops calling

-A man suddenly goes from seeing you as a fun and fantastic woman to seeing you as more of a friend
he isn’t interested in

-You say something about where your “dating” is headed and he closes off and never opens up again

Any of these sound familiar to you?

Then I want you to stop right now.

Odds are, you’re a great women but you’re making mistakes with men that you aren’t even AWARE OF.

Don’t let this happen to you, when it can be just a few simple and easy tips that will help a
man see you for the great woman you are inside.

There I give a great simple list of the specific things men look for in a woman.

And I also share what men are looking to avoid in women, and how to make sure you don’t
accidentally have a man see you as the wrong kind of woman for him.

THE FOOL-PROOF WAY TO HAVE A GREAT GUY WANTING
MORE AFTER THE FIRST FEW DATES

I’m going to get to the point here on this one.

What is the quick and easy way to have a man wanting more with you once you’ve met and been
on a few dates?

Well, as I’ve said, from the start on just the first few dates… a man is silently making a
whole lot of subtle and UNCONSCIOUS DECISIONS about you and who he thinks you are.

If you make some of the obvious mistakes that throw off his wrong woman “radar”… then a man
is going to quickly stop wanting to see you and stop calling.

Avoiding the mistakes too many other women make that ruin the start of what could be a great
relationship is the first thing to keep in mind.

But let’s talk more about things to do and say with a man.

If you’ve met a man, and you’re unsure about where things are going, then there’s really only
one thing to keep in mind if you like this guy – ATTRACTION.

Now, there’s been a whole lot of talk about attraction in the world lately.

So I want to give a quick definition of what I mean when I say “attraction.”

Attraction is that magic emotion that we feel when someone enters our heart and mind in a way
we can’t really explain with words.

Attraction for a man is something that reaches deep inside him and stirs up emotions he doesn’t
understand and didn’t know he could feel.

And when a man FEELS ATTRACTION for a woman, he no longer uses his “logical” mind to decide
what he wants when it comes to love and relationships.

Attraction takes over a man’s mind and causes him to start acting and making decisions with
his HEART instead of his MIND.

Starting to get a better sense of what attraction really is?

Now, how do you CREATE ATTRACTION inside a man so that he starts to use less of his MIND
and more of his HEART with you?

Good question.

The first key to ATTRACTION is to have an element of UNPREDICTABILITY to you and the time
you spend with a man.

See… most men, especially older ones, have seen and done a lot of things with women.

And unfortunately, as a result lots of men have started to assume that most women are the
same when it comes to love and relationships.

When you show up and a man can’t fit you neatly into his categories of women he knows and
does or doesn’t like… you very quickly have a man’s ATTENTION.

But getting a man’s attention is just the first step.

The second step is to turn his attention into INTEREST.

To do this, I’ve found that most women who men feel comfortable with and see as “relationship
material” and fall for are women who have a certain attitude in common.
If a man is going to even start to consider a woman for a relationship… then there HAS TO BE a playful element to the way you are together.

In short, without this a man won’t feel that being in a relationship with you would simply be and stay FUN.

Of course, the other element of this female attitude men are naturally attracted to for relationships is Independence.

In short, when a woman communicates that she
has a great life of her own, it is VERY ATTRACTIVE to a man.

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