If it happened to you to run a marathon, you probably know a sign of despair and breakdown moment coming usually somewhere on second half of a distance. It seems to you that you just about will fail. At you does not remain neither physical nor moral forces; everything is hurt. You would like to surrender. But to those who do not surrender and continues to run, comes the second breath – they feel inflow of energy and reach finish.

Something similar could happen with you when some months step by step you were building relations with your partner and now everything is finished! Yes, difficulties on this way trap considerable, and a temptation to throw all and to withdraw is great – especially if you have met the woman of the dream, have spent with her five delightful (for you) weeks then she has declared that comes back to her ex.

Or if, for example, your best friend has promised to acquaint you with the tremendous man – he is surgeon, and he has a remarkable winter small house in mountains where it is possible to go for ski walks, and next spring he goes to be engaged in a scuba diving on wonderful islands. And here you get acquainted with him – he is not handsome, hands shiver, he does not look into your eyes and at all he is not the surgeon, and the medical assistant.

And here you have such thoughts:

“And what for in general is it necessary to me?”

“I am not the lonely person, I have many friends. Why should I tie myself? Perhaps, some people are not created for love and marriage “.

“It will happen when it is fated.”

“I should work more over myself”.

“I am too old (thick, poor, high) for this purpose”.

“I will be engaged in it later when I will have more time, forces, when children will grow up”.

Such thoughts induce you to surrender. It is not necessary. The only thing that can prevent to find your love is your own capitulation.

Happy private life is destiny of not the most beautiful, thin, graceful, rich or well-known women. It is destiny of those who do something. Than it is more you do for this purpose and lose less time, the faster you will find the suitable person. If you surrender and do nothing, even in this case you can meet your second half. But after all a meeting with the loved person is the most important meeting in your life. Is it necessary to give it on will of a case?

It is your life – now and today. It is not a trial life after which will be real one. It is not necessary to live so as if it is only rehearsal before real life in which you will do everything correctly. You will not have other chance.

You can be happy if you are ready to search for your happiness! You can fail only in one case – if you surrender.

It is almost impossible to avoid the cases when you have to face the how to get your ex back situation. The biggest problem here is that people think too much about how to get your ex back, instead of putting this whole situation in another way. It is not about how to get your ex back, really. This is about how to make it exciting again.

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