It’s the most tempting thing in the world. Your ex is calling or texting you, telling you how much he or she misses you. They cry and promise you that things will be different. Before you fall for it, remember these things:

You broke up with this person for a reason: – No matter how much they sweet talk you, remember that there were specific reasons that you broke up with this person. People don’t change overnight. Change takes time and effort. So anyone who promises you that they will be totally different overnight is not being truthful. And take some time to remember the reasons you broke up, before reconciling with your ex. Sometimes just remembering reasons give you a big enough reason to stay broken up.

Fixing a Relationship takes work – Talk is cheap. Actions speak louder than words. Just because an ex SAYS that they are going to change, doesn’t mean they are really going to change. Before you consider giving your ex another chance, make sure they are sincere. They can prove this by agreeing to a trial period. You tell the person that you will give them a chance to win you back. So take two or three weeks and see if things feel different. You know this person very well so your gut will tell you if they are truly trying to change.

There are other fish in the sea – I know this seems like a tired cliché but it is true. There are so many individuals out there and you never know who you might run into. Your soul mate might be right in front of you, but as long as you are trying to get your ex back you won’t ever realize it. Think about how many missed opportunities there have been because you chose to stick it out with your now ex. Was it really worth it? Well, now you have the time to go out and take advantage of some new opportunities. Don’t’ be afraid to get back into the dating scene. It might be the best decision you ever make.

And ask yourself this question: why do I really want my ex back? Many times people want to get back with their ex simply because they don’t want to be lonely. Other times it’s because they miss the security of the same old routine. Either way, neither are good reasons to give an ex a second chance. You should only give your ex a second chance if you really feel like the relationship can survive with some hard work. If this is the third or fourth time you’ve broken up, it’s probably destined to fail again. If your feelings for him or her are not very strong, you should probably get out while you have the chance. And lastly, and most importantly, if the trust is gone from the relationship, it’s probably time to move on.

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