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Would you recognize a “good man”
if you saw one?

Do you frequently meet and get into relationships
with men you THOUGHT were going to be right
for you…

Only to discover many months down the road that
they’re not, and it causes you a lot of pain and
frustration?

A man will often be on his “best behavior” the
first 6 months you’re dating. It’s often hard to
“see” him for who he really is when you’re
experiencing a lot of attraction and chemistry.

This is why it’s CRUCIAL for you to figure out
early on, before you get too involved, whether or
not he’s MATURE ENOUGH to have a good
relationship, and whether he’s ready to be the
kind of man you need him to be for you.

In my “The Secret to the Hearts of MEN”, I reveal
the 3 greatest fears most men have about
relationships that will put ALL his actions in a
new perspective for you.

I’ll also show you the 7 deadly signs of an
IMMATURE MAN and the 4 key areas of development
men go through in their lives, so you can know
from date #1 whether or not he’s really as
“together” as you think he is.

Now, I’d like to answer a question
that I hear all the time from women who are
getting back out into the dating world after
getting divorced or leaving a long-term
relationship.

Maybe this is something you’ve been curious
about, too.

You’ve met a man who’s over 40.

Let’s say he’s never been married.

He’s got a great career, is fairly successful,
and has a lot going on in his life.

You find him very fascinating and attractive,
and you think about how much you’d love to have a
man like this in your life.

You date him a few times, and he seems like a
great guy, but something feels a little “off” in
the things he does and says (even though you tried
to ignore it or deny it).

He seems a little defensive, a little
reserved – specifically when it comes to letting
you know how he feels or what he wants from a
“relationship.”

He almost seems SCARED or turned off by the
idea of anything long-term or “serious.”

He gives you the impression that he’s just into
having fun, seeing you once in a while, but he’s
not into anything more than that. He doesn’t say
it directly, but you have a feeling this guy is
just into playing the field.

There are the little clues.

He has dates with other “friends” and always
seems to be busy every night of the week.

He never introduces you to his close friends or
family, and when he does, you’re just “a friend.”

He likes to do things and hang out in places
with a much younger crowd.

You really like this guy, but you know it’s
probably hopeless. He is only interested in women
to have fun with, and maybe even women much,
much younger than you are.

And then there’s the man who WAS married
before. Maybe he’s even got kids from his previous
marriage or relationship.

He’s loving, responsible, and you sense that
he could be a great long-term partner.

You have a great connection and you have a lot
in common.

Then suddenly, (and particularly AFTER you’ve
had an amazing and intimate time together) he
pulls back a little.

He tells you he wants to “go slow” and “not
rush into anything serious”, which is fine and you
agree.

But then a little while later he completely
withdraws and acts like he wants NOTHING to do
with a serious relationship after all.

Ouch!

He acts very “into you” one minute, and very
loving, then doesn’t call you for days, or acts
distracted and distant. You’re confused and hurt,
and you don’t know what to do next.

Maybe he gives you a “been-there-done-that”
speech, or makes you feel like you’re the “clingy”
one who wants so much more than he’s willing to
offer.

He leads you to believe that he’s not
interested in anything more than being a “good
friend” because he’s done the marriage thing,
and he’s not into that anymore.

Or he’s never been married, and isn’t really
interested in getting married at this point in
his life.

You feel like he’s getting ahead of himself,
so you try to let him know that you don’t mind
taking it slow, but nothing helps.

You want to date a man who’s close to your
age, but a man your age doesn’t seem to want
anything real.

It’s like you can’t win!

Which leads you to ask yourself:

Do older, successful men just have more
“baggage” when it comes to love and
relationships?

Get the full answer about Understanding Men.

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