Breaking up advice is a bit like taking out an insurance policy, you really don’t want to do it but, if you’re wise, you do it anyway. If the time comes, and when it does, going through a breakup can be one of the most heart wrenching things a person ever has to go through, therefore taking advice to prevent a break is a wise move.

It’s even more important to take the very best possible and most authoritative advice you can find if a break up has already happened , but the old saying ‘prevention is better than a cure’ applies also in relationships and I suggest you would be smart to take advice at the very first signs of any challenges coming up between you and your partner. Please don’t wait to long and end up finding out that the ‘cure’ is more than you can bear.

Here’s several great ways to avoid a breakup:

1. By taking a few steps back and looking at the issues that led to the break up you will have a better idea how to keep the relationship intact, as well as educating yourself with the best breaking up advice information you can find.

2. If you’re constantly catching your lover telling little white lies, I wouldn’t take it too personally, as a lot of people in this world tend to do this as a natural reaction. Maybe somewhere along the line in their past they had to constantly hide the truth so as to make someone happy and content.

3. Sometimes when looking for the answer on how to avoid a break up, you need to give thought to what your partner likes and do all you can to follow through on getting these items sorted, or making these things happen. Small simple gestures can go a long way, especially if they come as surprises.

4. Make sure that you both have mutual respect for each other and that you’re dedicated to each other and to the partnership. That can have a major impact when trying to figure out how to make things work out.

5. Many times people just make things up, or lie by omission, just to keep the peace. By understanding this concept it will help you understand where your lover is coming from when you catch him or her in a little white lies.

More and more, of the many couples I help, are not in need of long term therapy, they are more in need of a short term relationship tune up. A relationship ‘shot in the arm’

Here’s some important questions to ask yourself:

1. What first attracted you to each other person? – This is the first question I ask most couples because it helps that they be reminded that their partner has some great qualities that led them to want to be in this relationship for the long term.

2. When have you both been the closest? – One of the easiest ways to spark up your relationship is to do all those things you were doing when you were the closest.

3. What are the strengths of your relationship? – Instead of all the things that didn’t go well with your relationship, what I want to know is what are the strengths of the relationship upon which you can build in order to solve the challenges you face.

You may have noticed that these three questions have all focused on the positives in the relationship.

This is done on purpose. Too many times one, or both, of the partners fall into the trap of focusing only on what is wrong with an individual or the relationship, rather than keeping the focus on what’s right in the relationship.

Which do you thing would do the best job of bringing you and the partner you love back together?

One of the many benefits of great breaking up advice is it will keep you focussed on using the strengths in the relationship so as to build up those areas where the relationship is weak or has been lacking. This advice will also, through the experience of others, remind you that there are very few challenges that can’t be overcome given the willingness of at least one of the partners to take action to make things better.

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